Unlearning

My public journal where I share weekly reflections on how I’m unlearning.

A Past Love

A Past Love

Last week I found myself back in New York, for the first time since leaving abruptly in March 2020, and I was scared to go back.

Just For Today

Just For Today

When I know that something is temporary, my tolerance for it appears to increase.

One-Sided Coin

One-Sided Coin

To see, want or expect only what I desire is to collect one-sided coin, except that one-sided coins do not exist.

Stream Of Change

Stream Of Change

Change feels hard. Change feels scary. Change feels unsafe.

Dealing With Desire

Dealing With Desire

For a long time, I naively believed that once my current desires were fulfilled, I would feel happier, or that my life would be better.

Facing The Unknown

Facing The Unknown

In every situation I am faced with, especially those with the unknown, I can choose to respond with fear or belief.

Fear Of The Unknown

Fear Of The Unknown

Along my journey through life, there are many moments when fear arises, usually associated with some unknown.

100 days

100 days

Like water, when my mind is directed in a single direction, it becomes powerful.

The Future of Work

The Future of Work

Living in a different country, continent and culture over the past few weeks has both inspired me and challenged me in unexpected ways.

Why I Moved Halfway Across The World

Why I Moved Halfway Across The World

Ten days ago, I booked a one-way ticket to a new country and continent.

Two Sides Of A Coin

Two Sides Of A Coin

It is easy for me to see only one side of a coin. To see the other side would require the effort to pick up the coin in my hand and turn it.

Work In Progress

Work In Progress

It mattered less about where we were, what we ate or what we did, but rather who we were with and how we were with each other

One-Way Ticket

One-Way Ticket

A little while ago, I booked a one-way ticket, packed a suitcase and left.

The Pursuit Of Life

The Pursuit Of Life

When I reflect on my life in chapters, each chapter has been defined by a primary motivation that I had been in pursuit of life.

Difficult Decisions Made Effortless

Difficult Decisions Made Effortless

I recently decided to get a car and found the process to make a decision surprisingly difficult.

Fear Is My Friend

Fear Is My Friend

Fear generally has a negative association with it. Our culture encourages me to become fearless, to conquer fear and to not talk about fear.

The Chemistry Of Connection

The Chemistry Of Connection

Now that in person connection has restarted in many places, I am curious about how the chemistry of connection will change for all of us.

Comfort With Clutter

Comfort With Clutter

While I am a neat and tidy person, my parents are not.

A Currency More Valuable Than Money

A Currency More Valuable Than Money

My currency in life is inspiration.

The Bridge From Intelligence To Intellect

The Bridge From Intelligence To Intellect

This is a question of knowing versus thinking. The pursuit of intelligence is a pursuit of learning.

A Bird In The Hand

A Bird In The Hand

There is a desire that I often feel to let go of the bird in my hand, in the hope that there will be two in the bush waiting for me.

My Post Pandemic Bucket List

My Post Pandemic Bucket List

Many decisions, big and small, will be made over the next few months that will influence the direction of my life over the next few years.

Nothing Is Permanent

Nothing Is Permanent

This morning while on a walk with my father, I asked him innocently ‘how are you similar to your parents?’.

The Bridge Of Belief

The Bridge Of Belief

To know what it is that I uniquely believe does not come automatically. It is much simpler to figure out what I should believe.