How to Play
The surprising joy in caring about something that didn't matter at all.
Unlearning
My public journal where I share weekly reflections on how I’m unlearning.
How to Stop
Momentum doesn’t care about the source, it just wants to keep going.
How to Time Travel
I hadn’t gained an hour, I had simply noticed one.
How to Diwali
Repeated gestures, not of productivity, but of presence.
How to Dubai
Sometimes the future is already here.
How to White Pajamas
There was a tenderness I didn’t realize I had been craving.
How to Action
I used to think an action was enough.
How to Stretch
I used to think growth was about getting stronger, faster, better.
How to Listen
What gives energy today might ask for it tomorrow.
How to Unpattern
Environments have a silent authority.
How to AI
The pull to return to what is known can be strong.
How to Unplan
There’s something seductive about having a plan.
How to Birthday
I used to think there needed to be a blueprint, a tradition to hold on to.
How to Be Remembered
I would host my own funeral. A living one.
How to Remember
When it came to writing my living obituary, my page stayed blank
How to Inspire
Being a beginner takes effort.
How to Low Stake
Most things aren’t that important.
How to Istanbul
Nothing matched the map in my mind. And that was the gift.
How to Progress
The expectation of perfection, it turns out, doesn’t retire peacefully.
How to Road Trip
There’s a difference between visiting a place and being somewhere.
How to Bruno Mars
For as long as I can remember, silence has been my default.
How to Pizzeria
There’s a particular kind of joy that comes from doing something well.
How to Escape Room
I found myself caring deeply about a combination lock that guarded a fake treasure chest.
How to Coldplay
In a world obsessed with permanence, emotion remains beautifully fleeting.